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Excerpt from Speak Your Truth

December 28, 2020/in Energy Healing /by Denise Dorfman

Introduction

“Each patient carries his own doctor inside of him.”

– Albert Schweitzer, MD

I remember when I was first diagnosed with lupus. A coworker said to me “Oh, I am so sorry.” I think she thought I was at death’s door, that I was not long for this world. I also remember that instant wanting to say, “No, really, I’m okay. I’m not going to die from this illness. Please do not pity me.”

I still feel that way. If you are introducing me to someone, please do not introduce me as a person “suffering from lupus,” because I don’t suffer from lupus. I am happy to report I have no active disease. I consider myself not just a lupus survivor but a lupus thriver. I have successfully sent me disease into remission. I believe lupus can be healed or the course of the illness significantly improved if you are willing to do the mental work necessary to dissolve it. You too can possibly put lupus into remission as I did and have no active disease. It does not matter how life threatening your illness is, or how many symptoms you have, or how many hospitalizations you have had this year. You can heal yourself of this disease or at least greatly improve your quality of life.

I have learned over the years that if we wait for the medical community to come up with a cure, we will have a long wait. I think this illness may be too complicated to be cured with conventional medicine. I believe those of us who are diagnosed with lupus need to go within to make ourselves whole. Even if researchers came up with a drug for lupus that cured most people, it would still not make us whole. A cure is not the same as healing. While a cure will only suppress the symptoms of lupus, healing means to become whole.

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Energy Healing for Cold Hands and Feet

November 28, 2020/in Energy Healing /by Denise Dorfman

Or, Finding Relief from Reynaud’s Syndrome

I wanted to share with you a process that can help with cold hands or feet.  It can even help with Reynaud’s.  Reynaud’s is a condition where blood is not flowing to the extremities properly.

It usually happens in cold weather.  Since it’s starting to get colder outside, I thought this was appropriate to teach you this self care treatment.  Please remember this is not a substitute for medical care.  This procedure is meant as a complement to sound medical attention.

You can do this yourself fairly easily with some practice.  It just involves training your mind to focus, opening your heart and allowing the blood to flow.

When you notice cold hands or feet, or decreased blood flow, open your heart and simply concentrate on the cold area and mentally direct the blood to the affected area.  This may take some time at first, but keep at it.  This is well worth the time and effort, especially if you have Reynaud’s.

In other words imagine the blood flowing to the cold area.  Close your eyes if that helps you focus.  I find that looking at the affected area helps me.  Just play around with it and see what happens.

Remember not to try too hard.  Don’t force or overthink this. Simply allow the blood to flow.  Relax and open your heart to let it flow freely and easily.  When your hands or feet start warming up, and color is restored, that of course is a great sign!!

This redirection of blood flow is also a type of energy healing.  When you are moving blood, you are moving energy.   

As you can see in the video below, this process does work!  This is a remarkable ability that you already know how to do.  You just need to remember.  You can do this!

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Epiphany

October 28, 2020/in Energy Healing /by Denise Dorfman

Here’s my biggest problem in prospecting for remote energy healing.  People say they are interested in intuitive energy healing.  Then, I follow up and I don’t get a response.   More often, they will want me to call them back in a month when they can fit it into their schedule.  Then they don’t respond to that either.

What energetic frequency am I putting out there when selling to these people?

Then I looked at my own buying (er, not buying) behavior.

I looked at all of the unanswered sales texts, people wanting meetings that I ignore, invitations to challenges, repeated sales calls I kept dodging, political emails I ignored, and the like.

Then I realized I was doing something very similar!!

So I changed my energy. I answered every single current request email, text, and call, told them I wasn’t interested and thanked them for thinking of me. I also didn’t apologize for not being interested!! I decided to just see what happens.

I recognized that I had a limiting belief that it was better to avoid the so-called confrontation of telling others I didn’t want to do it or I’m wasn’t interested.

Here’s the immediate benefit. I stopped wasting energy dodging people, thinking they’re too aggressive.  Or, being bothered by what they’re selling – my stuff around that.   I drew all that energy back inward and actually had more to utilize for more productive tasks.   

Now that I am no longer in the vibration of non-assertive dodging when people are selling to me, it’s only a matter of time when I cease to attract people who are an energetic match to that.

So I invite you to consider this if you sell anything:  When you get rejected, what’s going on there?  Where are you doing something similar when you get approached?

As they say in the coaching world:  You spot it, you got it.

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Creating Your Future

November 8, 2017/in Energy Healing /by Natalie

“The best way to predict your future is to create it.” – Dr. Joe Dispenza

I wanted to write this week about how I created my future using mind movies and meditation.

As you may know, I have been attending workshops given by Dr. Joe Dispenza.  About six months ago, he incorporated mind movies into our teachings for the Advanced Workshop in May of this year.

Mind Movies are really digital vision boards.  With mind movies, you can create a video with pictures and affirmations to create what you want in the future.

I am happy to say that it works.  In six months, everything I created is manifesting.

For example, I created a picture of a key with the affirmation “My business helps thousands of people.”

The result is that I am getting more followers on social media every week, selling more books, and have much more media exposure than I did six months ago.

So I am making good progress to helping thousands of people with my business.

The next frame of the video is a picture of a fit young woman with the affirmation “I am the perfect weight for me.”

I’ve since lost five pounds without dieting.   I am well along the way to being at the perfect weight.

The next scene of the video is “I attract money with my abundant thoughts.”

I have since felt much better about my finances, and I am meeting my financial obligations with no problems.  And I have had some major expenses this year!!

The next affirmation is “I choose to exercise regularly” with a picture of a fit woman exercising.

I was not exercising at all six months ago.  Now I am exercising at least four times per week, sometimes more.  Check!

The next frame was “I am a divine conduit for healing others.”

I have not only experienced healing for myself, but other people have been healed as a result.  A member of my church had cancer, and ended up getting positive medical reports and is recovering nicely!

 

So, I have manifested every one of my goals.  Mind movies, especially combined with meditation, work very well in manifesting what you want in life.  I highly recommend mind movies along with meditation – you can create anything you want.  The sky’s the limit!

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On Grieving

September 27, 2017/in Energy Healing /by Natalie

I thought I would repost this blog that I wrote two years ago.  I hope that someone who is going through a similar experience won’t feel so alone.

Last weekend I went to my first grief support group for the loss of my husband.  Jerry had passed away almost two years before, but I had to take care of my mother, so I set my grieving for him aside.

I have lost four people in the last two years, three of which were family members.   I lost a dear friend two years ago in July, my husband Jerry in January of the following year, my uncle in July of the next year and then my mother in June of this year.

That’s a lot of loss.

I’m not sure why I haven’t gone totally crazy by now.

When my father was diagnosed with terminal cancer, I developed severe depression and had to be hospitalized.

People feared I would become ill again when my husband passed away.

But nothing happened.  Even when my mom died.

The reason I think I didn’t get sick is because all of the people that died in the last two years were very ill, and the loss was what they call “uncomplicated” – it was expected.

It doesn’t make it any easier though.

I lost my dear girlfriend to brain cancer.  Who am I going to discuss The Course in Miracles with?  Only she could have related to the Course in Miracles!

I lost my sweet, loving husband Jerry to pneumonia.  Now there’s no one to come home to at night.

I lost my endearing uncle to colon cancer.  Who’s going to make me laugh in my darkest hours?

Finally, I lost my mother, my best girlfriend in the whole world.  To whom am I going to tell my deepest darkest secrets?

These people left quite a hole in my life.

I have been feeling anxious for no reason at all.

I’ve also been angry at everyone at work for no good reason.   Thank God I was working at home that day!

However, I know these feelings won’t last forever.  I have met some really awesome people in my support group who have had worse losses than I have.

Together we will get through this, one day at a time.  I just wish it wouldn’t take so damn long.

 

 

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Dear Lupus

August 30, 2017/in Energy Healing /by Natalie

Here is a letter I wrote to lupus a few months ago.  After receiving positive news with my lab work, I thought I would be appropriate to post it this week.  Have a great week!

Dear Lupus,

You’ve been hanging around for a long time now, and I wanted to write a letter to let you know how I feel about you.

Frankly, I don’t have much to say to you.

When you first came into my life, I didn’t know what to do with you.  I did not find you all that interesting, because I never researched your many symptoms online.

I didn’t obsess about you night and day.  All of the information I got about you I learned from my very supportive rheumatologist.

In other words, I let him worry about you.

I didn’t pay any attention to the tests they ran on you.

Instead, I focused on health and wellness.  I cleaned up my diet.  I got a personal trainer.  I exercised 5-6 times a week.  I even gave up refined sugar for a period of time.  Finally, I meditated every morning, and I made sure I got enough rest.

Most importantly, I affirmed, “I stand up for myself freely and easily.  I claim my power.  I love and approve of myself.  I am free and safe.”

Finally, my doctor confirmed that you had been put to rest.  I had no active disease and had been that way for quite some time.

My doctor told me, “Whatever you’re doing, keep on doing it.”  So I did.

I never “battled” you, “conquered” you, or “fought” you.  You’re just not interesting enough to engage in battle!

What is interesting to me is waking up in the morning with no pain or swelling.  I also can move my body with ease because I have the energy.

I can work at a job that is right for me, and write about my experiences at night and share them with others.

I can go out at night because I feel good.  I also expect to live a long time, loving life.

Finally, I’ve made peace with you, and I thank you.  Without you in my life, I never would have learned to stand up for myself.  I am grateful to you for teaching me that valuable lesson.

My desire is that others who hear about me can apply what I’ve learned about coping with lupus and finally recover to a live a fuller, more active life.

Again, thank you, and I’m glad I was able to put you to bed.

 

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How I Manifested an Offer on My House in Record Time

July 18, 2017/in Energy Healing /by Natalie

We really do create our future.  This week, I wanted to share an experience where I manifested an offer on my house.

I decided to sell my house since I could not afford to live there anymore and wanted to move to a less expensive area.  So, I got it ready to put on the market.

Unfortunately, other people in the neighborhood had the same idea.  They had similar houses and they decided to sell theirs as well.

I had a lot of competition.  It seemed quite unlikely I would get an offer anytime soon, even though the home was in a great location.

I decided not to give in to worry and fear.  I meditated on a future potential where I easily and quickly got an offer on the house.  I used Dr. Joe Dispenza’s Tuning into New Potentials meditation.

I also wanted to sell my furniture, so I envisioned the buyer wanting to buy the furniture as well.

I did that for about six weeks.  During that time, I meditated on that potential every day.

When fear and worry set in, I did a journaling exercise that I learned in a money workshop called “Align with Money:  A Day to Find Peace and Calm with Money”, which was organized by my dear colleagues and friends Sandra MacDougall and Carol Plummer.

I did not let worry and fear thoughts slip past my consciousness.

Then I let go of attachment to outcome.  I simply surrendered.

Then I received a call from my realtor.

I got an offer on the house!  At the price I wanted!  AND, the buyer was interested in buying my furniture.

It worked out just as I created it!

I think meditating on this new potential every day, not letting worry and fear get to me, and then finally letting go manifested this offer.  All of this in a pretty tough environment full of competition.

Know that you always create your future and recognize what a powerful manifestor you really are!

 

 

 

 

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Look for the Blessings – Even in Negative Experiences

June 19, 2017/in Energy Healing /by Natalie

I thought I would repost a blog that tells a story of what I have learned about so-called negative experiences.  Enjoy!

I once had a friend who, when I met her, was looking for a job within our company.  She was being laid off, and wanted to switch to another department.  I told her they were hiring in my department, and she agreed to have lunch with me to talk about this opportunity.

When we sat down, I told her that I liked my job, and that I appreciated the people I worked with.  The managers were helpful with any questions I had, and most of the people were nice.

In short, I liked where I was, and did not see the job ending anytime soon.  There were too many issues to be resolved, and there was too much work to be done.

So, she interviewed for the job, and because of her vast, relevant experience, she got the job.

However, she realized that she did not like the job at all.

She felt the environment was very negative, and even got assigned to a task that was grueling, tedious and hard work.

She had to meet a quota every week, and was having trouble meeting that quota.

Later we found out that her old job ended up being more secure, and that it never would go away thanks to increased funding.

I asked her if she regretted leaving the old job just to come to this new department with the tedious assigned work.

She actually said she did not regret coming over at all.

I thought she was nuts.

Then the worst happened, to both of us.  We both got laid off from our jobs (remember, this was a job I thought was very secure – you just never know).

I was struggling to find a job for months, since it was during the Recession.  My friend found a great job in a new field that she was very good at, and that job gave her experience where she was very much in demand.

She went on to obtain her PMP (Project Management Professional) certification, and even ended up with a nice bonus for getting certified!

I realized that if she had stayed in that safe, old job, she would have never discovered this exciting new field, and would have never gotten the PMP certification.

She would not have gotten paid as much, and would never have received that nice bonus.

Her experience taught me something:  there is a blessing in every experience, even when it appears to be very negative.

I invite you to look for the positive aspects in the so-called negative experiences you have had in life.  I promise you will find the blessings in that situation.

Remember that life is full of both positive and negative experiences, and it is your job to find the jewels amongst the so-called garbage in life.

 

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They Are Not You

June 5, 2017/in Energy Healing /by Natalie

I thought I would repost a blog I wrote a few months ago, because I relearned that lesson when I went to a workshop this weekend.

I found myself comparing and contrasting my experiences with other people’s experiences.

I realized that we all are unique, and can’t really compare ourselves to others.  It’s a waste of energy and time.

I realized, as B.B. King had stated, “They are not me.”

Here’s the blog from a few months ago that I think bears repeating:

As you may have heard, B.B. King, the legendary blues singer, passed away recently.  On the news, there was a clip of something he said that I thought was very poignant.

I think we can all learn from what B.B. King said.

He stated that many people do exactly what he does (sing the blues), and that many people could do it better than he did.

However, they were not him.

Think about this statement for a minute.

How many times have you played the comparison game with others, thinking someone can do something better then you and felt inferior?

But they are not you!

You bring your own unique perspective, personality and flair to whatever you do.

I know that there are many great writers out there.  Many people know how to write.

Many people write books and many people blog regularly.

I could obsess about this, if I chose to.  I know that many people probably write better than I do.  I’ve always had strong writing skills, but I’m not a brilliant writer like many best-selling authors out there.

They’re not me though.

I bring my own unique experiences to my writing and blogging.  No one else has the perspective that I do.

So it is with you.

So the next time you feel “less than” a co-worker, friend or competitor, know that they are not you!

You are equal to everyone else.  You are no better or worse than anyone.

And know that you have your own unique gifts, talents and abilities to offer this world.

Remember that you are a magnificent, unique, human being just the way you are.

Don’t deny your magnificence by comparing yourself to someone else.

Remember what B.B. King said about himself.

“They’re not me.”

And he was a legend.

You are a legend too, in your own unique way.  Always remember that.

 

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Affirmations are Only the Beginning

May 17, 2017/in Energy Healing /by Natalie

I wanted to write this week and clarify my position on affirmations and their efficacy in healing lupus.

Many people state that affirmations don’t work.  They say you cannot just babble affirmations day and night and suddenly cure yourself of disease.

Actually, affirmations are only a small part in the process of healing.

They are a beginning point of change.  They are a way to put into words what you want in your life.

However, they are not enough.  It is not enough to repeat affirmations to achieve a state of health and well-being.

You must change from the inside out.  You need to change your state of being.

When I was diagnosed with lupus at 30 years of age, I was very uncertain of what the future would bring.

I knew people had died from this disease.  I knew people could get very sick and their lives would be altered forever.

And I was sick for a few years.  Then I discovered You Can Heal Your Life, by Louise Hay.

I looked up SLE, or lupus, in the list in the back of the book.  She stated the probable cause of the dis-ease was “A giving up.  Better to die than to stand up for oneself.  Anger and Punishment.”

Then the new thought pattern stated:  “I speak up for myself freely and easily.  I claim my power.  I love and approve of myself.  I am free and safe.”

I realized I had not stood up for myself, ever.  I never defended myself when attacked or criticized.

Even when I disagreed with someone, I kept quiet.

I did start by repeating that affirmation often.

However, I knew intuitively that I had to start doing and being that assertive person who consistently stood up for herself.

Then I started to speak up for myself at work.  When that “bully” at work attacked me, I defended myself (in a positive way).

I became that assertive person.  I changed my state of being.

Then I meditated every day.  I knew that meditation not only helped with stress, but also increased brain wave coherence.

I learned later on at Dr. Joe Dispenza’s workshops that when brain waves are coherent, disease cannot exist in the body.

Soon, my rheumatologist confirmed I had no active disease.  Later, after attending Dr. Joe’s workshops, even the laboratory confirmed I had no lupus in my body.

In August of this year, my ANA test was negative, and all of the other tests for lupus were normal!

It’s like I never had lupus.  It had left my body.

So don’t completely discount affirmations.  Though they do not heal illness, they are a good start on your pathway to wellness.

 

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